If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.

But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.

I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.

Understanding the reality of the extremely beautiful women and understanding your own fascination for a perfect women will help you resolve this conundrum, and might even help you in finding your “perfect girl.”

First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

The only true “10″ is the one that’s perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10’s, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because almost all men do that.

A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.

Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”

Let me explain it.

You shouldn’t treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.

First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for the sake of yours, I”ll be giving you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.

In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.

May sound harsh but I call it like it is.

These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

And here’s another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”

You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.

You’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level - it’s what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

The girl will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you’ll also enjoy a lot of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.

Vin

Widely Respected Scientific Study Reveals: Women Love Sex This statistic was derived in a 2007 study by Paige M. Padgett, PhD. while she was a research associate at the University Of Texas School Of Public Health. Padgett’s study, entitled “Personal Safety and Sexual Safety for Women Using Online Personal Ads” was published in the widely respected scientific journal, Research & Social Policy, a journal of the National Sexuality Research Center.

Padgett’s study involved 740 women who had placed online ads seeking men. The results of the study were quite compelling. Padgett found that over 30% of the women engaged in sex on the 1st date. And more surprising, of those women that had sex, 77% reported not using a condom during 1st date sex.

Virtual Intimacy Theory Padgett’s conclusion was not that these women are merely sluts. Rather she discovered that women who would otherwise be cautious may engage in unprotected sex because they are lulled into a sense of virtual intimacy.

Dr. Padgett reasoned that the “virtual intimacy” was created by the disclosure and exchange of personal information through frequent e-mail and telephone calls. The women revealed information about their backgrounds, sexual preferences, and their likes and dislikes with the men they eventually slept with on their 1st date.

It was this exchange, says Padgett that fostered the “virtual intimacy”. Women developed a sense that a relationship already existed (even if it didn’t) which encouraged sexual intimacy at a faster rate than ordinary.

So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You’ll save money as it’s cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you’ll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.

My View of Padgett & Her Conclusions: She interprets the results of the study incorrectly. She is overly paternalistic and portrays women as weak, pathetic and stupid. They are not. Furthermore, she views men as predators who trick women and lull them into a sense of “virtual intimacy”. Bullshit!!

Let’s Use A Little Common Sense To Distill The Padgett’s Study. Give women the credit they deserve: They know what they want. Women are looking for attractive mates who meet their dating qualifications. They select one or more candidates from the innumerable men that email them. Lastly, they query the candidates to determine if the man in question meets their dating qualifications. If so, it’s sexy time!

If you really examine what’s going on here, you’ll realize that it’s the women pressing the fast forward button on the sexual relationship. The women in the study (and all online women daters) want to learn as much about a potential mate as possible, whether by email or over the phone before meeting face-to-face.

Why? Easy: to convince themselves to engage in sexy time as soon as possible. When a woman becomes convinced that a man meets her dating criteria she will have sex with him. Dr. Padgett’s study reveals that the women had determined that they would have sex with their dates right out of the gates before their face-to-face meetings. The women had gathered enough info to make this determination before even seeing their dates in person!

How To Use Padgett’s Study To sum up, women love sex as much as men. They, however, take a substantially different approach than men. And this is the most important fact that I’ve learned from my own online dating experiences, which is supported by Padgett’s work: Women must first convince themselves that you meet their dating qualifications and that you are a Quality Man.

Not understanding this fact leads many guys to shoot themselves in the foot. They wrongly believe that they need power, fame, or money to have success with women. My secret that is supported by Padgett’s work: To be successful in online dating requires only that do not disqualify yourself. Women have dating qualifications yes. Women have all sorts of questions, yes.

But, women only need you to answer their inquiries and present yourself in very straightforward manner in order that they can say to themselves, “Hey this guy is normal, he’s available, and he’s mine.” They must be able to give themselves permission to have sex.

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You might have heard rumors that Russian women are really gorgeous. Most of these rumors are entirely true. Russian women are truly beautiful and would not mind being your companion. But in return all they want is some attention and respect from you, and not just for their gorgeous body.

Russia is the largest country in the world but generally speaking the standard of living in most areas is very low. Most women are looking for a foreigner from a well developed Western country, hoping that this will help them leave Russia forever and start a new life somewhere else. They are using their remarkable good looks to seduce you. This is how the legends of hot Russian brides were born.

Women are set to give up everything to escape the poverty that they face in Russia. This provides a great opportunity for men to floor these gorgeous blonde haired, long legged, blue-eyed ladies from the former USSR. There is no doubt that they would do everything realizable to make you love them always.

In return, they are willing to do almost everything they can to make you happy. Every small gesture of yours, such as a present or a surprise, will be appreciated immensely and they will treat you like a king.

Apart from being immensely attractive, Russian brides are also extremely faithful. In the Russian culture, women are brought up to accept that the man is the head of the household and must be respected, obeyed and taken care of. They will work at making you happy as they look at you as the breadwinner and guardian of the house. They will show you gratitude by working hard, not just as a wife, but also as a mother to your children.

It is not very difficult to find a Russian woman looking for some romantic adventures. Although it is a little difficult to speak the Russian language, you do not need to learn it in order to go on a romantic rendezvous with a Russian woman. Most women can speak English, and if you get along well, they might even take a few foreign lessons from you. For instance, ‘privet’ means hello in Russian.

But apart from all these things, Russian women fully understand that movies and chatting is not all that goes into building a good relationship. They will try their level best to ensure you feel they are worth the cultural shock that you might experience when you meet a Russian woman. The rumors of the hot Russian brides are true even in modern times. These women are attractive, intelligent and energetic and will work very hard to marry you and ensure that you love and respect them for the efforts that they put in.

These Russian women do not expecta lot from you. In fact they make very few demands. Just like most women in the world, all they need is a warm bed, some security and a lot of attention. As most Russian women wish to be mothers some day, they want to be with someoen who will one day want a family. Russian women will be great mothers to your children and love them passionately. Russian women are extremely hard working and passionate people. In return they expect nothing but love, respect and a promise to stay forever.

Have you avoided approaching a girl just because she is talking to another guy?

Or maybe you fear of getting embarrass if you approached a group of girls with one or two guys with them because you ASSUMED that those guys were cooler than you.

Most guys shy away from approaching women who are with other guys for a couple reasons.

They think that the woman is “with” the guy, and assume he’s her boyfriend.

This isn’t a real reason to not talk to a woman, especially in a bar - it’s a social setting where people meet other people. Plus - she’s not his “slave” - she’s a human being, not a piece of property, so she is free to talk to whomever she chooses.

Approaching a woman who is “with” a guy often will make you look extremely confident, and draw out his jealous side, making him look insecure and weak.

The other reason guys don’t approach women with other men points to a deep insecurity based on a simple misconception.

Men tend to be threatened by other men, they assumed that the “other guy” is more cooler, stronger, or somehow powerful than they are.

This exist in an ancient survival strategy that has been passed through human minds.

It’s often hard to tell who the more “dominant” human is in any given interaction. The social hierarchy is very subtle, and mostly unconscious. So when a male is confronted by another male, he doesn’t know how dominant the other guy is.

He doesn’t know if he will be embarrassed verbally, or as was probably common thousands of years ago, beaten up.

So it’s better to play safe by assuming that the other guy is a threat. Guys that were too bold may have won a few confrontations, but it will take a single loss to end up dead or exiled from the game.

And then their genes were eliminated from “race” so to speak.

Those guys that avoided confrontation and played safe are the one that can successfully reproduce and survive.

The irony of this is that nowadays this hard-wired survival strategy is the basis for most approach anxiety - guys avoid women unnecessarily because they are making false assumptions.

The thing is, when you are in the bar or club and you see a woman talking to another guy, you would think she’s not WITH him.

Usually, they JUST MET!

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve approached a woman thinking she was “with” a guy, only to find out he was some random dude who just approached her. Or he was just a friend or relative.

I have regrets to those times that I’ve missed so many opportunities talking to a woman just because I saw her with another guy. And this brings me to my first point:

DON’T ASSUME THEY ARE TOGETHER UNTIL YOU SEE PHYSICAL EVIDENCE. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT HE MEANS TO THE WOMAN.

You’ll never know until you find out. Just remember to be alert and respectful, because in the off chance they are together, the guy may be the insecure jealous type and start a physical confrontation.

So use your brain - just don’t be stagnant in making a false assumptions.

Jumping hills with your buddies on your ATV? Is that same place a good place to take your woman? You better believe it! Women love the exilleration of the ride just like the boys! Girls are is a thrill of jumping the dirt hills and experiencing nature just like anyone else!

Don’t think for a minute that today’s woman can’s handle the rough riding conditions of an ATV trail. Today’s women are strong. Some women actually make the guys look really bad on the riding trails. They can hold their on. So don’t be afraid to bring up the date out on the trails with your favorite gal. Most likely she will jump at the chance!

Just because you’re doing some boys stuff, does it mean that you have to forgo being romantic. Start off by sending your “special friend” an invite for an ATV cruise to watch the sunset from a trail nearby. If you don’t like calling her on the phone, just send her a message to her myspace or facebook page. Most likely, she has one.

There are a few different things than you need to do than your normal date. You won’t regret it. First, map out the perfect ATV trail based on your companion’s four-wheeling level. If she has it written the floor, just pick out a smooth trail for her to cut her teeth down while she learns. She will have a good time, and it will make things so much better. On the other hand, if she’s a veteran ATV operator, you can up the ante by picking out a more technically difficult trail filled with twists and turns. Whatever you do, make sure that you and her about have plenty of gasoline in the tank. It would be a disaster and had to walk a long way home at night without your four wheelers.

Don’t be too casual about the date, you still need to get ready to impress your lady. Though ATV riding can be a dirty proposition, a suit and tie is wildly inappropriate; however, that doesn’t mean you have to show up looking like a slob. It’s a given, but it needs to be said anyway. Pay attention to your hygiene. Brush your teeth and clean your tongue. Use deodorant. Come you’re hair, cut your nails, and of course take a bath.

It is always a good thing to bring a sack of goodies along for the ride. Things like your MP3 player, snacks and drinks, a picnic cloth, digital camera, and anything else that you will like to have too enjoy the day. Remembering to do those little things will make a lot of difference with impressing your girl.

When on the ride, impress your girl, but talking meaningfully about the scenery around you and how it makes you feel. Find some wildflowers and picked them for her. Still be a romantic, of course. It is about the journey from point A to point B. It is about being together, and learning more about the other person. So don’t be afraid to stop and smell the roses. When taking a break from the ATVs, if the moment is right, and the lady willing, be sure to grab some kisses from her.

Should something go wrong along the way, keep yourself calm, cool and collected. Remember, this ATV trail date is about the journey, not about the destination. When you and our look back, you would just laugh and she’ll remember how well you handled the situation.

Just like any date, you never really know what the future will bring in a relationship. This might be the start of something great, or it may be just one of the girls that you must go through to get the right one. But overall, it will be an experience that neither one of you will forget. So give it a try, and remember that girls can like riding trails on the ATVs as much as guys do. Try and have some fun!

There are many rumors in circulation that claim that Russian brides are cheap and can be virtually bought from a website. These rumors could not be further than the truth. The fact remains that Russia is an extremely proud nation, and not every Russian girl is a scam artist. As a matter of fact, Russian women, by and large, are only looking for love, like any other woman of the world.

Very often, men from western countries and cultures are sent to Russia for business trips. While many others go there because their office has settled in St. Petersburg, Moscow or other cities. These men who have visited or lived in Russia are full of stories concerning the charm and wit of the many beautiful and educated Russian women they have met.

It is true that Russian women are extremely charming and beautiful, but they also know that, in reality, beauty is but skin deep. Many wealthy men approach them, but they know an honest man from the other and they know when a man is only after their looks and when a man is interested in what they really are. If you intend on dating a Russian girl, you should get to know her well.

The three second contract is an effective and simple way of picking up Russian women.

When you are walking towards her, pretend as if you having an internal dialogue with yourself. Try to look pensive as you are having this internal drama with yourself. You will probably be nervous, but try not to show her this, just keep up your coy exterior. Do this for only 3 seconds.

Then, as if you have suddenly made up your mind about her, go up to her, but not too close, and utter the word “Privet”. Privet means hello in Russian, and it is a friendly non-offensive way to start a conversation. Your accent will show her that you are a foreigner, and will prepare her for what to say next.

The majority of Russians speak at least one foreign language, and if you are lucky, it will be the same language you speak. She would be motivated to listen as she would experience butterflies in the stomach to know that you are an American.

Try out all the Russian words and phrases that you might know. This gives her the message that you respect her culture and traditions. It is certainly difficult to understand foreign languages and hence, you will both be in the same boat, so to speak. The typical Russian woman is extremely friendly and she will encourage and help you converse with her. In the three second you took to approach her, she would have gathered that you are interested, amiable and kind when you speak to her in Russian. You have already taken the first step towards a great friendship or relationship.

But, this is not always how it turns out. She may be engaged or have other reasons for refusing to chat. The important thing is that you tried and it is important that you do the same when you meet eyes with a woman across the room or the street. Just because one woman said no, do not stop trying.

Russians, by nature, are spirited and passionate. Like in any relationship, it might be hard to understand and agree with your new bride’s moods all the time.

Unlike the Western Society, where many people are alienated for being different, Russians are always supportive and ready to lend a hand to anyone in need. They like to share all the moments of happiness or misfortune with anyone who needs it. They would be surprised to know how many young people in the Western countries leave their friends and family and only see them at Christmas and Easter.

It is very important for any man to make his wife feel comfortable with his family. The cultural differences are to be sorted out and explained properly to the bride before introducing her to your family. Give her a gist of all the modern traditions your family follows, and be patient and make her understand.

Another way to hold onto your pretty Russian bride is to not be a jealous person. When meeting your family you will probably see her kissing your brother on the cheek, or hug him every time she sees him. This is perfectly normal in the Russian culture, because Russians are warm people. Their gestures are not done with seduction in mind, but it is merely a way to show your family that she likes them. In Russia, the word brat, meaning brother, is very popular and can be heard throughout family conversations quite frequently. If you have jealous feelings about how well she takes to your brothers and male family members it will only have a negative effect on your bride, and will make her feel misunderstood.

All Russians are educated well and they are active members of different foreign societies. Their interests and hobbies are varied and almost all Russians have had something to do with art and literature almost all their lives. Russia is highly developed in the fields of engineering and heavy industry; so do not be surprised if your wife has a degree in chemistry or physics and wants to hold conversations to use her knowledge. You should let her talk as much as she likes regarding subjects that you might not have any clue about.

Modern Russians also enjoy freedom and entertainment, so do not force your pretty bride to stay home on Friday night and watch television or something they might find equally boring. You should take her out and show her your favorite places for dining and enjoyment. These ladies have fantastic rhythm, so consider taking her to a dance club. It will not only be a feast for your senses, but she will appreciate the fact that you care enough about her to do what she wants to do.

Traveling is another way of hanging on to your bride. With such a charming person to accompany you, the best thing to do would be to get into a car with her, and drive away to a far away place. Whenever time allows, tour the country with her and show her all the places she has only seen on maps. In addition to fascinating her, this will also help in strengthening your relationship. These experiences can give you the opportunity to fall in love again and make new memories.

Last but not least, you should surprise her with flowers. Those small gestures will fill her life and yours with romance. In Russia, March 8th is a very popular holiday. This is International Women’s Day, and under no circumstance should you forget this occasion. It is almost as bad as forgetting Valentine’s Day! So, the next time this day comes around, you should remember her with a small gesture that makes her know that you are thinking about her.

Show your love and compassion creatively and make sure your Russian bride knows her importance in your life. Always respect her and share her culture.

You might have heard rumors that Russian women are really gorgeous. Most of these rumors are entirely true. Russian women are truly beautiful and would not mind being your companion. But in return all they want is some attention and respect from you, and not just for their gorgeous body.

Although Russia is the world’s largest country, in most areas, the general standard of living is low. Sometimes it gets really difficult to live in Russia and many women look for foreigners from well-developed countries of the west so that they might leave Russia and settle down in a better country. At times they resort to their enchanting looks in order to seduce you. Perhaps, this is how the rumor of the hot Russian brides started. But this is not all that there is to them.

The Russian women are prepared to sacrifice a lot in order to move away from the poverty that most of them have to face in Russia. You can take advantage of this, as these long legged, blue-eyed, blonde haired ladies will be more than willing to meet you. Without doubt they will do all they can to ensure you love them always.

In return, they will be ready to give you everything you need if you love them. If you even make a little gesture of love, such as small present, they will just fall in your lap and make you feel as if you are a king.

Russian brides are not just hot, but they are faithful as well. They have been properly educated by their mothers that the man is the king of the household and that his words and desires are law. They have also been taught that they should give pleasure to the husband, because just like in old times he is the guardian of the house, and is the bread winner of the family. To show him their gratitude for doing this, they are ready to work hard both as a wife, and a mother to make sure they give you whatever you need.

Finding a Russian woman who is looking for romantic adventure is not that hard either. Even though the Russian language is hard to speak, you are not expected to learn it in order to have a romantic rendezvous with a woman. Most of them speak English pretty well, and if you both get along well enough then they would love to have some foreign language lessons from you. You can also take a few lessons yourself. For instance, you can say “privet” which means “hello”, and that alone will melt their hearts.

These women know quite well that relationships do not just comprise of catching up with movies, or chatting about routine things. They would do everything possible to make sure that you have not wasted your time by adjusting to the culture shock while dating her. These hot Russian brides really survive because of the evolution of the modern world. They are intelligent and enthusiastic and would do anything for you to love and marry them, and give them the respect that they deserve.

These Russian women do not expect anything much from you. All they need is your affection, care and the feeling of security. They want someone who would love to have a family as much as she does so that she can have kids for which she has been waiting for and to stay with you forever. They just want to show the love and passion they have for you and expect the same from you in return.

A Russian romance tour is recommended for those men who have made conversation with women through mail and find that the spark is just not there. Falling in love with a personal connection is almost next to impossible. To know if the relationship will fall in place or not, you will have to make sure the woman is just perfect for you.

Matchmaking services offer several package tours that help you visit the different areas of Russia. A few of the packages are located in the ex-soviet republic which others are located only in the bigger cities like the capital of Russia, Moscow.

Rates will differ depending on the type of the package and amenities provided. The object of these tours is to meet a lot of people, the maximum that time can permit, in a short period of time.

You will find that there are tours for groups as well as individuals. The group tours will have a lot of travelers. A general ratio of such groups is one man to ten women. During informal parties the foreigners who travel together are let to meet a number of women and as many as they want. The women would have been chosen by the agency depending on matches with the guest profiles.

Though some participants are specially invited to the party to have fun, you can ask the tour guide assigned for you to organize a personal meet with the one who suits your needs and expectations. If your matchmaker has the women of highest quality, then you will be shocked at what you see.

Alcohol is the main part of matchmaking parties. Drinking vodka when you are socializing is a common tradition of Russia. This helps making conversations easy and also relaxes the inhibitions. The women love to dance. However, you are not expected to dance with them. Just be yourself as the women love a good sense of humor.

The tours are well organized in restaurants, cafes or bars and the public are not let in so that the people feel more comfortable. If you ever feel people are invading you privacy and taking pictures, you can tell the agency that you do not expect anything of this sort.

Individual tours differ from the group tours in one aspect. The man can himself choose a location for the date. The agency advises to have a short meeting with the women who are available before one set up the date. Make sure that you are aware of the details of the tour in advance as you do not have much time to spend in Russia to go there unplanned. As soon as the date with the desired woman is planned by you, the agency will make sure that the other women know about your plans in detail in order to avoid unpleasant scenes.

Individual tours are more expensive but the gentleman will receive more attention from the matchmaking agency and their potential dates.

A Russian romance tour is the perfect solution for busy people who do not have time for long emails and researching thousands of profiles. Group individual tours are a great way to meet many women and find the right one for you.

Russia is a great place to look for love or maybe marriage. Russian matchmaking services offer sexy and modest women and can help you set up that first date!

There are several scams in Russia that you need to look out for. Scams are growing at high rates all over the country. Criminals are trying to get your credit card information to use for their own needs. How do you identify the real from the fake? Several matchmaking services are requiring a fee to join their communities. With the fee, you will have access to the women’s email addresses and unlimited correspondence to translation services and a description of the Russian culture.

When you sign up, you will be requested to provide information regarding your name, age, orientation, income, employment position and other personal details. You will be questioned about the type of relationship - whether it is long term, dating, friendship, marriage. You may also be required to give proof that you are a bachelor. This can create problems if you are already married and searching for an individual who is open minded or in case you are a divorcee.

You will need to be cautious on anything that sounds suspicious. You can use a check or a pay pal as they are safer and better alternatives. Make a cancellation with the company of your credit card if you think that you may have been a victim of the scam. If you do not believe in the Russian matchmaking agencies, you may go on with your own way as it is not very difficult.

Do a search for free dating sites on the internet. One thing you will definitely find is that women are real and you will not be asked for any money to look at their profiles or even get in contact with them. Dating websites are very easy to access and navigate. They have versions in English and other languages. Information and advice on how to contact the women, ask for a first date or just simply get to know them will be available from the professionals! You are able to say anything or ask any questions. Once you have found a Russian woman that you would like to get to know, you will be able to develop a friendship on the phone or in person.

A few rules need to be followed however, as a precaution to prevent you from being scammed. If the conversation goes into anything to do with money or if you are being asked to pay, you will have to move away. This is a sign of the women being just after your money and not for love.

Usually Russians do not agree with the large gaps of age in marriage or relationship. Suppose you are being contacted by a person who is not of your age, you will have to question them as to why they wish to talk with you.

There have been situations where the woman has a huge family at Russia and is looking for someone who is rich and especially a foreigner so that she can get money from them in the name of coming over to meet them and then take off with the money.

These are a few things that you will need to keep a watch for. If something sounds suspicious, it may really be. So be safe and keep away from such things. A background check is one thing you can do for a very small price of one forty dollars.