It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.

There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are “better.”

You will feel required to give a lot of your time to a woman if your time is not so valuable.

But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

When I analyzed tons and tons of dates I went on women, it was just when I realized it.

After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.

This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.

Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

Ask you know, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

The proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST. And I don’t recommend you to play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever.

Just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want. no need of games.

Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.

Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.

It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.

You should think that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.

I want to make one more point - when you start being honest about how much time you’re willing to give a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.

If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.

That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.

And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin