Dating Tips: Attracting a “10
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″, then you should read this letter.
But first, let’s go waaay back…
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.
A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have a lot to say about the concept of “10’s,” In deeper sense they are another “breed” of women, but it is on the way they think that makes them so.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First of all, “10″ is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more “valuable”.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true “10″.
The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.
As I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me explain it.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First, she don’t like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.
There are two types of “10’s.”
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are in complete dumbasses.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently…you’ll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin
